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    Category: CYCLE OF USE – denial & defensiveness

    “We Are Absolutely the Worst People” in Her Life: When Mental Illness, SUD, and Blame Collide 

    Your CRAFT skills may be put to the test, but they’re still indispensable. Perhaps more than ever. At Allies in Recovery, we’re always impressed …
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    Laurie MacDougall October 28, 2022
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    The Question of Moderation: Is It Okay for Your Loved One to Drink Small Amounts of Alcohol?

    An Allies in Recovery member hears her loved one expressing a desire to reintroduce small amounts of alcohol into his life. He's been through program …
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    Dominique Simon September 23, 2022

    I Think I’m Ready to Ask Him to Leave – Even Though I’ve Been Doing CRAFT

    An active Allies in Recovery member wrote in to our “Pose a Question” blog with an update about her partner who continues to use substances and to…
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    Dominique Simon September 16, 2022

    Resisting Treatment? He’s Not a Rare Case

    Substance Abuse Disorder typically occurs in stages — and readiness to seek treatment is not the first of these. Fortunately, CRAFT was designed wit…
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    Dominique Simon September 16, 2022
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    A Chink in the Armor of Their Denial is DAY ONE in the Healing and Recovery Process

    Understanding our Loved One’s struggle with addiction often means understanding denial. It’s not as simple as it appears.
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    Dominique Simon February 1, 2022
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    The Hard, Worthy Work of Being on His Side

    There’s nothing easy about communication with a Loved One who’s convinced they have no issues to address. But with kindness, clarity, and preparat…
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    annieunhooked August 23, 2021
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    What Does Being “In Denial” Actually Mean: In Denial Definition

    Acceptance of a painful reality is a process and takes time. If it's happening to you, be open to the truth and gentle with yourself. If it's happenin…
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    annieunhooked December 4, 2020
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    He Says He’s Not Using, but My Gut Says Otherwise

    With the holidays approaching and his situation sinking to new lows, this concerned sister is ready to speak to her brother about his SUD. She's u…
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    isabel October 12, 2020
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    Is He Too Young to Be Considered Addicted?

    Is your Loved One just experimenting or could you be witnessing the early stages of addiction? Regardless of the severity of your Loved One’s us…
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    Dominique Simon July 2, 2020
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    We’re Visiting Him Soon – How Can I Address His Denial?

    When you have to travel across the country to visit your Loved One, only to see them wasting their lives on drug and alcohol, it can fe…
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    Dominique Simon July 1, 2020
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