Enough Lies… Give Me the Truth!
He's doing much better but she still struggles with his dishonesty, past and present. She wonders, is it selfish to expect him to be honest? Could…
Category: Discussion Blog
When You’re Concerned About Violence Is CRAFT Appropriate?
We regularly hear from members who wonder what level of violence (verbal, phsyical...) is "acceptable" from an addicted Loved One when you&#…
After 15 Years, Billy Succumbed
Billy died this month, leaving his mother heartbroken. mlb2t has requested that donations be made to Allies in Recovery in his name — The W…
How Do I Show Him Love When He Avoids Me?
Is your Loved One avoiding you, despite your good intentions? Have communications deteriorated between you? Does it feel like a lost cause? Here are s…
I Feel Like I’ve Failed Her
Does it feel like you’ve given years of your life battling your Loved One’s addiction? Have you spent endless energy helping them and…
My Loved One Struggles With His Mental Health – Is CRAFT Right For Us?
Our Loved Ones with SUD are generally vulnerable, especially when mental health issues are thrown into the mix. How does mental health fit into t…
When You’re Up Against the Entourage’s Uninformed Influence
He’s back home from detox, on a waiting list for a half-way house. His parents are coddling him and unconsciously enabling his use. Our member, …
He Says He’s Not Using, but My Gut Says Otherwise
With the holidays approaching and his situation sinking to new lows, this concerned sister is ready to speak to her brother about his SUD. She's u…
I’m Not Hearing Any Change Talk—Can I Still Bring Up the Drinking?
Is your Loved One downplaying their alcohol or drug use? Even when they say they've got it under control, our gut often says otherwise. If you'…
He Still Has the Occasional Beer and I Still Freak Out
This wife doesn't understand why she can't simply rejoice in all the progress her husband has made. He is moderating successfully, and so much…