You’re Gonna Be Lousy at It, At First: Reflective Listening, Intentional Dialogue and How to Vastly Improve Communications with Just About Everybody

If you’ve ever felt baffled or enraged by communicating with a  Loved One, you’re sure to appreciate this episode. Neither “just listening” nor “talking to”, many who have used it will tell you that Reflective Listening is a magical and alchemical tool.

When you practice Reflective Listening, you help your Loved One to feel deeply heard and you also help them find their own solutions.

Laurie MacDougall is joined by Imago Relationship therapist Kayla Solomon and Allies colleague Isabel Cooney, for an eye-opening dive into Reflective Listening (Module 4 – watch on youtube now).

What is it? How does it work? What are the benefits for you, and the person you’re reflectively listening to? And why does Kayla believe in it so much that she says she’d use it if someone were pointing a gun at her?