How Do You Slow Things Down if it Feels Like Your House is on Fire?

Dominique Simon October 4, 2024

Graphic Design by Lizabeth Laroche

You can become an agent of change by changing yourself. How do you step back, take space, change the dance from the usual interactions? You can’t do that if you’re moving too fast to assess things. Remember that change starts slowly; make small changes, and let them accumulate over time. Crisis that happens all the time is actually chronic behavior, and no longer crisis in the same sense. You can’t lift a car off someone every day — you have to change the underlying dynamic.

Tagged: awareness, Defenses- how can they serve us, fawn, fight, flee, fluidity, freeze/hide, protection, responsive

Dominique Simon

Dominique launched Allies in Recovery in 2003. Her work has been featured on HBO and NPR. She is a facilitator and a trained speaker on issues of addiction and the family. She has worked extensively developing and evaluating federally-funded substance abuse programs for organizations and clinics throughout Massachusetts and New York. With an interest in recovery and substance abuse that spans 20 years, she sees a huge need to help families develop the skills to help a loved one recover fully in a supportive, whole, and lasting way in their families and in their communities. Her mission is to have Allies in Recovery fill that gap.

Graphic Design by Lizabeth Laroche

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