How do you shift from being in somebody’s face to a more open conversation they’re more likely to truly hear? Start with Module 4 (if not available on alliesinrecovery.net, watch our modules on youtube), and work on skills that improve your communication, increase your ability to self-soothe, and take the heat out of conversations.
You can learn to engage in a way that improves the relationship, and become part of their treatment process, instead of being something else your Loved One is battling.