Do They “Have to Want It?”

Dominique Simon August 16, 2024

Graphic Design by Lizabeth Laroche

Sometimes, people say the person with substance use disorder “has to want” recovery before it will happen. Others even say they must want it more than their family members or allies. In truth, people are often ambivalent; the process is often subtle. It’s up to us to provide options, be open to their process, and discover our part, changing our own behavior rather than trying to change theirs.

Tagged: Ambivalence, behavior changes, black & white thinking, community connections, openings, options, shift

Dominique Simon

Dominique launched Allies in Recovery in 2003. Her work has been featured on HBO and NPR. She is a facilitator and a trained speaker on issues of addiction and the family. She has worked extensively developing and evaluating federally-funded substance abuse programs for organizations and clinics throughout Massachusetts and New York. With an interest in recovery and substance abuse that spans 20 years, she sees a huge need to help families develop the skills to help a loved one recover fully in a supportive, whole, and lasting way in their families and in their communities. Her mission is to have Allies in Recovery fill that gap.

Graphic Design by Lizabeth Laroche

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