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You’re Invited to a Special Screening of the Film “If Only” in Reading, MA

Dominique Simon September 9, 2015
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You are invited to a special screening of the short film “If Only” – the story of two teenage boys who experiment with, and become addicted to opiods.

this event is finished, but if you are interested, you can watch “if only” by following this link…

The event is *free of charge* but reservations are required. Click here to reserve your spot.

Date:              Wednesday, September 30, 2015 Time:              7 — 9 PM Location:     Jordan IMAX, READING, MA Rated:           Recommended for ages 12 and over

The film is a co-production by the Mark Wahlberg Youth Foundation, Millennium Health, and WAHL St. production. Co-written by James Wahlberg and Michael Yebba and filmed in Tewksbury, including local
residents, with production assistance from Marc Ginsberg of the Tewksbury Country Club. Sponsored by the Reading Coalition Against Substance Abuse, Mystic Valley Opioid Abuse
Prevention Collaborative of Massachusetts, and their supporters. The intent of the creators is to educate young people on how quickly drug use can spiral into
addiction. Appropriate for ages 12 and up. Join us, guest speakers, and a Q+A panel of professionals during National Recovery Month, September 30th from 7 — 9 PM, at Jordan’s Furniture IMAX theater, (Walkers Brooke Drive, Reading MA). Because of seating capacity, reservations are necessary at http://bit.ly/rcasa or call RCASA at
781-942-6756. Click here to sign up and reserve a spot!
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Dominique Simon
Dominique launched Allies in Recovery in 2003. Her work has been featured on HBO and NPR. She is a facilitator and a trained speaker on issues of addiction and the family. She has worked extensively developing and evaluating federally-funded substance abuse programs for organizations and clinics throughout Massachusetts and New York. With an interest in recovery and substance abuse that spans 20 years, she sees a huge need to help families develop the skills to help a loved one recover fully in a supportive, whole, and lasting way in their families and in their communities. Her mission is to have Allies in Recovery fill that gap.

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