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Podcast: “From Addiction to Recovery, How Our Goals Evolved”

Annie and Laurie open up about where the focus was when they first became aware of their sons' addiction, all the way through to where their goals and focuses are now. How did their goals evolve over time and how they depend on who your loved one is: a child, a spouse, a parent. They also conduct a short quiz to determine where one might be in the stressful process.

By | 2017-08-02T15:52:52+00:00 August 2nd, 2017|'Coming up for Air' Podcast, Self-Care|

Podcast: “Am I Being Manipulated? Am I Manipulative?”

Manipulation is used as a strong arm tactic when there is no healthy communication: "Healthy families communicate, unhealthy families manipulate". In this podcast, Laurie and Annie discuss their own experiences with manipulation. How do we recognize manipulation when it's present? How do we as affected family actually manipulate as well?

By | 2017-06-21T10:16:37+00:00 June 13th, 2017|'Coming up for Air' Podcast, Self-Care|

You Oughta Be Ashamed of Yourself!

Positive reinforcement, as basic and childlike as that sounds, is a motivating force for progress. Speaking to someone’s goodness despite their wrong choices unlocks their worth. “You’re not a bad person, you’re just headed in a bad direction.” Or maybe “You shouldn’t be ashamed of yourself, maybe just aware of faulty patterns so you can choose different ones.” That’s a great way to start motivating someone. Versus, “I told you so, you ought to be ashamed of yourself.”

By | 2017-06-08T08:52:44+00:00 March 23rd, 2017|Guest Bloggers, Self-Care|