I Listen When Addicts Tell the Truth

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We recently highlighted this piece on the NEWS blog on our Member Site. I thought I’d give you the bullet version. It is rare to read something comforting about our loved ones. I, for one, appreciated these insights.

Patricia Lincourt, LCSW, has worked with people struggling with substance abuse for over 20 years. She says that most of them defy the stereotypes we typically have. Below is a recap of 10 truths she has heard patients expressing, time and time again.

–  “I know I have a problem with substances.”

–  “I am sorry for the pain I cause others as a result of my substance use.”

–  “I have experienced trauma and have difficulty managing emotions.”

–  “I have tried to quit or cut down many times.”

–  “I listen to your concerns when you express them.”

–  “I am scared to think about what life might be like without substances.”

–  “I have a lot of ambivalence about continuing to use.”

–  “I am embarrassed by what I see as a lack of strength or willpower.”

–  “I am responsible for my actions under the influence or sober and should be held accountable for them.”

–  “I have a disorder like any other medical disorder.”

The full article from the Huffington Post is linked here.

By | 2017-02-26T20:49:56+00:00 September 16th, 2016|Communication, Connection|

About the Author:

Dominique Simon-Levine
Dominique launched Allies in Recovery in 2003. Her work has been featured on HBO and NPR. She is a facilitator and a trained speaker on issues of addiction and the family. She has worked extensively developing and evaluating federally-funded substance abuse programs for organizations and clinics throughout Massachusetts and New York. With an interest in recovery and substance abuse that spans 20 years, she sees a huge need to help families develop the skills that will help a loved one recover fully in a supportive, whole, and lasting way in their families and in their communities. Her mission is to have Allies in Recovery fill that gap.